
I’m non-binary, my partner is pansexual, and we are having a baby.
Join me as I navigate what it means to be a non-binary parent, experiencing all the emotions, the endless to-do lists, and the bizarre yet beautiful world of making a baby and raising a human.
Expect ramblings, tears, and heartwarming moments as I share my experience with you from conception to birth and beyond.
A little pause…
I’m the Xaddy is taking a short break while we welcome our baby into the world. 🖤
After months of talking about pregnancy, identity, non-binary parenthood and everything that comes with getting here, it’s time for us to actually become parents, something I’ll be bringing you along for when the podcast returns.
And when Season 2 arrives, we’ll be talking about the first 40 days, becoming a parent, diblings, identity after birth, and all the messy, unexpected and wonderful things that come with figuring this out for the very first time.
Season 2 will return with new episodes every two weeks.
For now, thank you for listening, supporting the podcast and coming along on this journey.

I’m Charlie, a non-binary, currently pregnant person and the voice behind I’m the Xaddy.
This podcast follows my journey through fertility, pregnancy, and parenthood, while also reflecting on the systems and structures that shape how we experience care along the way.
Alongside my own experiences, I weave in facts, figures, and wider context where they help make sense of the bigger picture.
I’m the Xaddy exists to challenge narrow ideas of parenting and to make space for people navigating family outside traditional norms — and for anyone who wants to share their own journey along the way.
© 2026 I’m the Xaddy. Stories shared with permission. All rights reserved.