
I’m non-binary, my partner is pansexual, and we are having a baby.
Join me as I navigate what it means to be a non-binary parent, experiencing all the emotions, the endless to-do lists, and the bizarre yet beautiful world of making a baby and raising a human.
Expect ramblings, tears, and heartwarming moments as I share my experience with you from conception to birth and beyond.
In this episode, I explore the question: did I always know I was non-binary, or were there signs I only understood in hindsight? I reflect on childhood memories, identity confusion, and the subtle experiences that didn’t quite fit the labels I was given at the time.
This episode dives into non-binary identity, self-discovery, and the process of unlearning expectations around gender. If you’re questioning your own identity, exploring gender diversity, or curious about what it feels like to come into yourself later in life, this episode offers a raw and relatable look at that journey.

I’m Charlie, a non-binary, currently pregnant person and the voice behind I’m the Xaddy.
This podcast follows my journey through fertility, pregnancy, and parenthood, while also reflecting on the systems and structures that shape how we experience care along the way.
Alongside my own experiences, I weave in facts, figures, and wider context where they help make sense of the bigger picture.
I’m the Xaddy exists to challenge narrow ideas of parenting and to make space for people navigating family outside traditional norms — and for anyone who wants to share their own journey along the way.
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